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Homemade Prosperity

Caught in the consumer trap? Radical Homemaker Shannon Hayes discovered that producing what she needs at home lets her live on a fraction of what she thought she needed.

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It should have been a high point in my life. I had just successfully defended my dissertation and had three potential job opportunities. But I found myself pacing around our cabin or walking the hills of my family’s farm, alternately weeping and hurling invectives into the country air. Bob and I were fighting with a force I’d never seen.

The simple fact was, I didn’t want the job I’d spent years working toward.

“I thought you wanted this! Why the hell did you just spend the last four years at Cornell? Why did we just go through with this? Why did you say that’s what you wanted?”

What could I tell him? Because I didn’t know any other way to stay close to my family’s land and make the kind of money I thought we needed? Because I didn’t believe there was a future in farming? Because the only way I thought I could manifest my talents was within an institution that would offer me a paycheck?

Before the Industrial Revolution, the family's economic security was a result of the householders' combined efforts to produce what they needed.

“What do you want?”

“To write and farm.”

“Then do it.”

“We need money. I don’t know how to do it.”

But I did know how. Since our arrival on these shores, every generation of my family has farmed. I was in the first generation that didn’t believe we could make a living doing it. Our neighbors lived, laughed, and loved on these rocky hillsides, and they did it with four-figure incomes. And yet, I’d come to believe that, on these same hills, we needed six. Somewhere along the line, I had stopped believing the evidence that was before me and started believing one of the central myths of modern American culture: that a family requires a pile of money just to survive in some sort of comfort and that “his and her” dual careers were an improvement over times past.

What had changed? Why did I believe we needed so much? It was a puzzle to me at the time. In retrospect I see that my generation grew up immersed in media that equated affluence with respect, happiness, and fulfillment. We heard a national dialogue that predicted the end of the family farm. Those messages shook our security in our lifestyle—we ended up questioning our own experience.

After all, I grew up working on my neighbor’s farm. We had fantastic midday feasts, the house was warm in the winter, and there was always a little spare cash on hand to donate when someone was in trouble. And plenty of pies got baked, gratis, to contribute to the local church bake sale and turkey supper. I was in my mid-20s before I discovered just how little money they lived on.

Shannon Hayes cooking photo by Terry Wild

Photo by Terry Wild

"Even with two children, we live very well on a bit more than $40,000 per year, a far cry from the six-figure income that I once thought we needed," says Hayes.

That was how many people lived as I was growing up in West Fulton, N.Y., where my family still farms. The steep hillsides and frosty valleys render most modern industrial farming technologies impractical in my community. Cash crops are few. To survive, my neighbors had to produce as many of the things they needed as possible and buy only the things they absolutely couldn’t make or grow at home. They grew and preserved food, sewed and mended clothes, and did their own repairs, improvements, and upkeep on the farm.

But most American lives reflect a transition that happened in households following the Industrial Revolution. Before then, the home was a center of production, not very different from the original households that first emerged in 13th-century Europe, as the feudal period was coming to an end. The family’s economic security was a result of the householders’ combined efforts to produce what they needed. They raised their food, cured their meats, made soap, wove fabric, and produced their own clothing.

Once the industrial revolution took hold, the household changed. Men were first to leave the home to work in factories, where they earned wages and used them to purchase the goods and services they were no longer home to produce. The more men worked outside the home, the more households had to buy in order to meet their needs.

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For a time, women continued to produce from within the home, but factories eventually supplanted the housewives’ duties as well. As time wore on, domestic skills were no longer paramount for survival. Instead of cultivating skills to provide for our own needs, we pursued skills to produce for others’ needs in exchange for the money to buy what was once produced in the home. The household had changed from a center of production that supplied most of its own needs to a center of consumption that bought nearly everything it needed.

At first, there were some pretty great consumer items that, in all fairness, lightened a burdensome domestic labor load—automatic washing machines, for example. But the idea of buying labor-saving devices that can’t be made at home gradually turned into our modern consumer culture—where everything from bread to entertainment must be bought—and generated our national assumption that a middle-class family requires one or both spouses to make lots of money.

The families I grew up around were exceptions to the trend. The agricultural industrial revolution is a relatively newfangled phenomenon that really only took hold in the last 60 years. For a long time after most American households became centers of consumption, the family farm was still a center of production. The survival of the pre-industrialized farm was contingent partly on products grown for sale, but also on household production that reduced the need to buy things.

Ultimately, Bob and I joined my parents in the grassfed meat business, where we now work, like many others, to help build a local, sustainable food system that enables us to make an adequate living. Keeping the lessons of our neighbors in mind, we determined that the key to survival was producing as much as we could and buying only what we must. We raise and sell meat for our income, but we also render fat into soap, preserve the summer harvest for winter, and spend more time socializing with friends and neighbors at home for entertainment than we do going out and spending money on amusements. Even with two children, we live very well on a bit more than $40,000 per year, a far cry from the six-figure income that I once thought we needed.

Shannon Hayes canning photo by Terry Wild
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Bob and I are fortunate in having access to my parents’ land and to the knowledge that they and other farmers in the area share with us. That has made our transition easier. But it doesn’t take a farm to begin the journey. Americans from different walks of life all around the country are taking steps in their own households, whether they are rural, urban, or suburban. Even without a land base, they are finding ways to turn their homes from units of consumption to units of production. They are walking and biking, rather than driving; cooking rather than going out for fast food; playing music and creating art rather than buying entertainment from mass media; preserving the harvest from local farms rather than buying packaged foods from an industrialized food system; brewing beer in the corner of their apartments; learning how to fix their own toilets and cars; repairing their clothing or finding ways to repurpose it; networking with neighbors to barter for goods and services that they cannot produce.

The upshot is a growing movement of Americans who are creating a new home economics where there is time for family members to enjoy each other, where the ecological footprint is greatly reduced, and where, instead of the family working to support the household, the household works to support the family. With this new home economy, relationships are deeper, children are more connected with the life systems that support them, and the family can make it through economic hard times with dignity and joy.


Shannon HayesShannon Hayes wrote this article for What Happy Families Know, the Winter 2011 issue of YES! Magazine. Shannon is the author of Radical Homemakers, The Farmer and the Grill, and The Grassfed Gourmet Cookbook.  She works with her family on Sap Bush Hollow Farm in upstate New York and blogs at YES! Magazine.

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Reader Comments

bill of rights computer program helps

Posted by d.m. at Dec 11, 2010 02:16 PM
To get out of commercialization trap removing false commercial rezoning signsclaiming to be from city authorities from lawns in city a start.
Also Bill of Rights as computer program to employ citizens by encouraging citizens to take computer knowledge and employ wachother stop nazi type situation from occuring again.

One More Point

Posted by Kathleen at Dec 11, 2010 05:09 PM
The author has done a wonderful job conveying the idea that the capitalist culture misleads us into believing the only way we can get by is by becomming part of the wage earning and consumer class. But when one joins the wage-earning class, much of a person's productivity is absorbed by their employer. Then, a person ends up working several of the hours of the workday to line their employer's pockets with profits. When one is self employed or producing on the farm, all of that person's labor goes directly to his own benefit. What the author notices as free time is really all the hours of production freed up by not having to work for another's profits. If more people had this realization, we could all work less and enjoy life more. www.killingmother.blogspot.com.

diversify the economy

Posted by deborah barnes at Dec 14, 2010 06:39 AM
I am not a farmer. i appreciate the food growers role in the economy and believe in CSAs and small local farms for many reasons as agri biz is a killer on many levels. However i want to continue my work with eco/sustainable fashion, marketing and design with artsy cultural queries – that’s me. We need the variety in crops (not GMO but real produce choices) and in lifestyles.

As biodiversity creates healthy eco systems i suspect economic diversity would create healthier economic systems. We need CSEs or Community Supported Economic systems to kickstart more sustainably viable local for profits. We need to be able to make a living by doing work we can be proud of; work that suits our passions and that will shift the paradigm. More ideas will be brought to the front to grow unimagined new possibilities, if we create the experimental sites that will support them.
 
This is just a matter of putting energy and resources into that which we want to manifest not into fighting or plea bargaining for change. Yup its be the change-CONNECTED is an attempt to do one something Interested? Please comment!
 

CONNECTED

Posted by deborah barnes at Dec 14, 2010 06:54 AM
Please go to http://fashionrip.blogspot.com for more information. We are trying to do something new to open up the way we perceive our capabilities; lets do the do-able now!

I Agree

Posted by Kathleen at Dec 14, 2010 06:58 AM
I agree. The current economy is increasingly dominated by monopolistic corporations. As they appropriate more and more of nature's resources, regular people have fewer and fewer options for economic autonomy. The current "free market," which favors only the above corporate entities bears no resemblance to the market of Adam Smith's imagination. In Smith's era, limited liability corporations did not exist, and businesses were accountable to their communities. In a community setting, people will undoubtedly be guided by an "invisible hand," which is not some miraculous force, but rather accountability to one's friends and neighbors. Local economies based on community businesses are the only way out of this global mess.

starting diversification

Posted by deborah j barnes at Dec 24, 2010 07:34 AM
Thank you Katherine,
i am gathering up "words" to help people see the situation and the more ideas statements the better picture i can paint. may i quote you for work within the context of CONNECTED? If people see systems for how misaligned they are with nature’s patterns as well as the human species total best interests, more will realize the problem is big but not impossible to overcome. There is such a weird “denial or helplessness going about, a malaise of over consumption perhaps...not sure, but after reading M. Pollan and Death by Supermarket etc....OMG! However i am betting on the species intelligent, conscious evolution
consumption perhaps...not sure, but after reading M. Pollan and Death by Supermarket etc....OMG! However i am betting on the specices intelligent, conscious evolution

Homemade Prosperity

Posted by Joel Gilchrist at Dec 12, 2010 01:08 PM
This article would be more uplifting if their prosperity was not now the result of their cattle, one of nature's sweetest species, being slaughtered in an unconscionably violent manner. I am the 6th generation of a family of farmers, by the way, whose father became a welder instead, and ended up raising a vegan--me.

Those cattle would prefer if the author had used that grad school degree instead.

vegan

Posted by deborah barnes at Dec 14, 2010 06:48 AM
i second the vegan approach for the efficiency, water & waste issues as well as the animal cruelty imbedded in agri biz. However these cattle might be on the range and part of a wider bio system and not the disgusting commodifications system of the big corporate producers.
Michael Pollan's book "Omnivores Dilemma" really helped me see the many sides of food, it makes a good argument for less animal products over all.

eco/econ diversity

Posted by deborah barnes at Dec 14, 2010 07:04 AM
I am not a farmer. i appreciate the food growers role in the economy and believe in CSAs and small local farms for many reasons as agri biz is a killer on many levels. However i want to continue my work with eco/sustainable fashion, marketing and design with artsy cultural queries – that’s me. We need the variety in crops (not GMO but real produce choices) and in lifestyles.

As biodiversity creates healthy eco systems i suspect economic diversity would create healthier economic systems. We need CSEs or Community Supported Economic systems to kickstart more sustainably viable local for profits. We need to be able to make a living by doing work we can be proud of; work that suits our passions and that will shift the paradigm. More ideas will be brought to the front to grow unimagined new possibilities, if we create the experimental sites that will support them.
 
This is just a matter of putting energy and resources into that which we want to manifest not into fighting or plea bargaining for change. Yup its be the change-CONNECTED is an attempt to do one something Interested?
Please go to http://fashionrip.blogspot.com for more information. We are trying to do something new to open up the way we perceive our capabilities; lets do the do-able now!

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